Being a mummy still rocks, little W rocks my world.
What we’ve been up to over the last week:
the weekend was busy with lots of visitors from both of our families
we had out first drive and walk together along Barry Island – W slept the whole way there, the whole walk and the whole way back 🙂
he passed his hearing tests with flying colours 🙂
he recovered his birth weight within 10 days 🙂
he is getting stronger and stronger – stretching, kicking, gripping more and more every day!
his long legs seem to be getting longer!
Still feeding well
daddy gave him his first bath and he loved it!
he met his great-grandma… A v special moment 🙂
he met his mummy’s best friends…. and all of these visitors have absolutely adored him as he’s so cute… and so well-behaved!
I know it’s too soon to worry about getting into a routine but here’s some of our current routines
We have big feed/change/feed sessions at about 9am, noon, 4pm, 7pm, 11pm, 3am with some snacks in between
He sleeps for most of the rest of the time so mid-morning and mid-afternoon are good for visitors/walks etc
We do a load of washing for him every other day at the moment – I can’t believe how many muslins/towels/change mat liners we get through every day!
We’ve hired a cleaner for a couple of hours every Friday afternoon – the best £25 a week I’m spending at the moment!
I need to improve my nappy changing skills… A couple of times he ‘s ended up with a wet back 😦 #badmummy
daddy going back to work sucked… I realised how much easier it is when both of us are here… But more importantly life is more fun when daddy’s home, we miss him! He did take us to Penarth Pier on Thursday after work though which we loved (and again, W slept through again!)
W has learnt how to spray poo across walls and how to vomit a pile of sick over himself, mummy’s hair and back, and the nursery. Nice!
I need to learn to nap a bit better… I’m getting by ok but a few more naps here and there would help!
Overall still loving life and can’t believe 2 weeks has already gone by!
I can’t believe that just over a week ago I was full of excitement but also a great deal of fear and trepidation about what was ahead…. how would I get through labour? What if Bean didn’t bond with me? What if something was wrong with Bean? How would I know what to do with a newborn? Would I still love Bean if they were weird-looking?
Fears melt away
I know *everyone* says that things will just click straight away and mother’s instinct will kick in – but they really do! From the moment baby W was placed on me for skin-and-skin and latched on for his first feed, I had a feeling that everything would be ok!
Things I love from Week 1
W taking so well to breastfeeding and generally being awesome – sleeps most of the time and only really cries when he’s getting changed.
The way he looks around while he’s being fed – those gorgeous eyes!
The way he twitches when he’s sleeping – kicking his legs and arms out – he spends a lot of time with one arm covering his eyes – this is how he was in the womb (and possibly why I tore when he was coming out!)
The way he stretches his neck/arms/legs when he’s awake
His funny grimaces and smiles (people say newborns don’t smile – I’m pretty sure he does!)
The funny noises he makes and his hiccups!
Having my other half home – he’s been amazing, cooking our meals, doing the dishes, doing 99% of the nappy changes and loving being a dad – it’s been great being a proper family for the week and it will be weird when he’s back in work. He’s already taken W out for a couple of walks and over to his grandparents when I’ve been too tired and sore to – so it’s good for us all that I’ve already been apart from W for a few hours at a time (I didn’t want to be a clingy mum if I could help it!)
His firsts – first walk, first bath, first time sleeping outside, first trip in the car to see his grandparents
Seeing baby clothes on the washing line for the first time 🙂
I also feel like I’m starting to earn the ‘mummy badge’:
my food going cold while I finish feeding W
multi-tasking – cleaning up baby sick from underneath me while still feeding W and trying not to move him
wet patches in T-shirts (!)
So W is fine – perfect and adorable – how am I feeling/looking?
Still sore – down below – after stitches – enough said!
Legs are still sore – been wearing support stockings all week and now I think I need to do some mild walking!
I have aches in places I haven’t ached before – upper arms and lower back – probably from picking him up and cradling him etc! (And I guess my body was in some weird positions during labour!)
My bump is nearly gone already which I can’t believe!
After having great skin during pregnancy, my spots have returned!
When I was pregnant, I used things like body butters every time I bathed/showered – that’s now gone out the window!
Tired – I would say I’m tired most of the time – probably from the 2 or 3 night feeds and I’m guessing breastfeeding in general zaps your energy. I try and nap every day but think I need to nap for longer if/when I can. Also trying to get fresh air in the garden when it’s not raining!
So there we have it – we not only survived our first week but we loved every minute! I love how every day is like a new adventure, I’m now so excited (and a lot less fearless about what the next days, weeks and months will bring 🙂